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Post by Admin on Dec 25, 2012 17:57:07 GMT -8
I don't want to be a Dr. Phil advocate but lately, he's been covering a lot of content on bullying with young girls. Full episode: I just want to point out a few points made in this video that is important for kids to understand: - Gaining respect for being kind will let you have real friends who would be happy to be by your side.
- Gaining respect by being feared by others will let you have friends who would want to get away from you but are afraid of what might happen once they do.
- One day, those "friends" (or should I say "followers"?) will find strength to go against you once they find better friends to be with.
- You will live in fear when you rule by fear. You can scare people into respecting you but you will forever be in fear of the people eventually fighting back against you.
- Bullying is on the rise. Amongst the female population, the media often portrays the "successful" women as snobby, better-than-everyone-else, bullies as they would dress more beautifully while showing off their possessions. It has slowly been becoming part of our culture since the past couple of decades. Isn't it about time we pay some attention to this?
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